You lookin' good... (omg!!! what should i say? what should i say?)

If you dated someone or still dating, you'll know sometimes you're out of topic to to talk to him/her.. and might end up with another failure or you'll be labeled as another typical guy/girl or even worse... you are a BORING person and end up being a friend, i did not say or even try to say I'm the pro here because this is usually happens (believe me!) to me from time to time but people learn from mistakes... did you?

First thing first! make sure you really like this girl/guy to make sure the effort you're about to make, if you just want to showed off, it might end up with you acting like a jerk in front of him/her and the person you want to showing off to. Realize the "how much i want him/her" as a measurement as wise man said, "wheres a want, there is a will"... there is you go... the first step!

I know... i know.. what is the purpose of last paragraph if I'm gonna talk about topics on a dating, but if you are wise enough... the wanting effects the will because to ask a girl/guy out is hard enough, what else? to find a topic to talk? Its all shown in body language and this is freaking important because 50% of communication constitute from body language! It'll show how much you like the person you dating, if you're uncomfortable with him/her, or if you just want to get laid (hooorraaahhh!!!)

Understand? (hope you do ;))

Topics..... Urghh! Commons are 1. How many brothers and sisters do you have? 2.What do you do for a living? 3.What's your favorite song? and so on... I'm not saying these are useless.. its important unless you dated a whore and just want to get laid, what i mean is you need is killer topics to make him/her look at you and said "this one no boring person" or "he/she is cool" try talk about your hypothetical, such as "what would you do if you won a million dollar"... or "If they could date any of celebrities" play a little game with him/her... make it interesting! asking for favorites is great too but they tend to be on earlier, before you ask them for a date... you know common way before you ask people out here... facebook, myspace, friends of a friend... I'm not saying that is the way, but I'm talking about here, our country, my country :)

Why don't you try impress him/her a little bit with sharing your ambitions and goals, but not too much because it might show you're nothing but a dreamer and showed off or even a liar! Try this "I'm thinking about do some business, a restaurant maybe" make it sounds nice and not cocky! don't try "I'm thinking about do some business, a multimillion dollar empire maybe" while you can't even afford to but a C class Mercedes... make it logical buddy!

Don't forget to make some jokes... not too much... how do you know to tell the right amount of jokes? its up to you buddy! girls do tend to like guys with jokes and so do guys like girls with jokes... but like i said... beware... too much jokes and you'll become friends not potentials aite!

The rest it should come naturally! trust me because the moment you started to feel comfortable with him/her, you'll realized what him/her really interest in... if she/he is a gold digger, you will know... but beware of tricks under sleeves as nowadays most people are exposed to dating and flirting tips... What i gave in this post might be useful or useless and i totally write it from out of my mind! sorry if u find this is nothing but full of crap peace!